Good Vibrations' Tri-O Triple Pleasure Ring Review

Time for another Good Vibrations review! I love my job, lol!  Today I'm going to tell you about the Tri-O Waterproof Vibrating Couple's Cock Ring.  Here is a picture..

It includes two rings as well as two bullet vibrators.  The vibrations are not extremely strong but they get the job done.  This toy provides a nice combination of sensations for both you & your husband.  We enjoyed playing with our Tri-O and will use it again from time to time. The thing I like the most is that because the toy is worn by the man it enables you to easily integrate some vibrating sensation into your lovemaking without a lot of trouble.  Easy and fun!

Bye,
The New Me

Meeting At The Bus Stop

Thanks for the post from Barney Crosby

Afternoons are my favorite time of day during the week. Monday through Friday at 3 o’clock, I put the leash on our dog Bingo, set my las Vegas adt security and lock the door then head to the bus stop to meet my daughter. I must confess that I was very nervous about her riding the bus home from school because she just started kindergarten this year. Because I work from home I could easily have picked her up every day. However, she insisted that she is a “big girl” going to the “big school” and wanted to ride the bus with the rest of her friends in our neighborhood. It’s so sweet to watch her skip down the bus steps with her back pack on and her lunch box in hand. Her face lights up with a big smile when she finds me and Bingo in the crowd and she runs over to give us a big hug. On the walk home we talk about her day and make our plans for the evening. It’s always the bright spot of my day!

Telling Parents About New Home

Author: Joseph Sandoval

I just bought my first house. It has been a huge move for me, but I am feeling very good about it. The hardest part was telling my parents. When I was renting a place, I think they always thought there was a chance I would live in the same town as them, but once I bought a place it was permanent. While they were and are very happy for me, I know they wanted me to live closer. I tried to let them know it was in a great neighborhood and that I felt very safe. I went on to tell them I had Long Beach ADT Security watching over me, but I could tell that wasn’t enough. My mom wanted to be watching over me and wanted to be a short car ride away. She worries about me and will always think of me as a little girl. I know she will always think of me that way, but she needs to eventually realize I am growing up and eventually accept this as my new home. I hope they will make the trek out her one day, but until then I think they will always want me to come back home.

Get a Melissa & Doug 25% Off Coupon When You Take the North "Poll"

Melissa & Doug want you to tell them which of their educational toys you think is the best! Just click on the image below to place your vote in the North "Poll!" You'll Get a Melissa & Doug 25% Off Coupon** to use at MelissaAndDoug.com just for voting!

The Steady Hand - "Made With Love" Sponsor

Next week is the "Made with Love" Giveaway Event!  You are going to have the opportunity to visit a ton of awesome blogs and enter lots & lots of great giveaways.  This is something you are not going to want to miss! 

Aprile from The Steady Hand has graciously agreed to be Totally Reinventing Me's sponsor for this event.  Some of you may know her from her blog "The Steady Hand Blog" where she posts lots of awesome reviews & giveaways as well as many other things.  But she also makes and sells tons of wonderful items, mostly crocheted but some sewn too.  Here are a few of her creations....

You can find The Steady Hand all over the internet!  You can visit her at The Steady Hand Blog, on Facebook, Twitter, and even at her Etsy shop!  And guess what....she has graciously offered free shipping to any Totally Reinventing Me readers!  Just send her a note (HERE) before you place your order and she'll take the shipping off.  So nice!

Be sure to come back for the Made with Love Giveaway Event which will be running November 8 - 13 to see what awesome prize you can win from The Steady Hand!

Bye,
Lisa

Good Vibrations' Blossom Organics Pure Pleasure Arousal Gel Review

I really enjoy the Good Vibrations website. It is very female friendly and easy to navigate.  You might remember me posting about them before. Today I have a product of theirs that I would like to review.

I was sent the Blossom Organics Pure Pleasure Arousal Gel to try out.  I'll admit, I was skeptical. I just didn't think it would work at all.  I figured it was just a regular cream/gel that wouldn't do anything at all to my "private parts". I never expected it to really add or take away from my arousal. Here is a picture of the product...

One morning things were getting frisky with my hubby and he pulled the bottle out. He said we should give it a try & started to rub some on me. Initially it was just cold but quickly began to heat up. Then it started tingling.  I'll be honest - it became way too intense for both of us. We had to stop and actually wipe it off.  I was honestly very surprised!

Now, that may seem like a negative review but really it isn't. Yes, it is true that I wouldn't purchase this product myself but not because it didn't work. Instead, it worked too well! It was just too strong and intense for us.  That means it works though!  Others out there might like the intensity.  I suggest visiting Good Vibrations and trying it if you are into that. I guarantee you will feel something with this product!

Bye,
The New Me

Live in Love

Thanks for the guest post by Eugene Fulton

Being a good live-in girlfriend is hard, you know what I mean? I try not to let it get overwhelming but sometimes I just get really stressed having to worry about my house and keeping Greg happy at the same time. I have a 40 hour a week job just like anyone else and it’s tough having to worry about a boyfriend who’s not just a roommate but someone I love as well. For example, the other day he asked me to go to http://www.cannonsatellite.com to look into satellite TV and I just forgot – he wasn’t mad at me but I know he was disappointed that I hadn’t helped him. There’s nothing about being a girlfriend that I find easy and maybe it’s because we’re not right together or that I’m not ready but I really want to make this work and I’m going to have to try hard to be a better partnerfor him. I want to stay living together but at this rate I don’t know where we’ll be in a few months.

Adult Toy Shoppe's Floral Wonder Vibe Review

I have recently been invited to begin reviewing items from The Adult Toy Shoppe. I love their website. It is very female friendly.  They even offer multiple sex toy guides, which are very informative and helpful.  As with most shops of this nature, all packaging and billing is completely private and discreet.

The item they sent for me to try out is the Floral Wonder Vibrator.  The first thing I noticed after taking it out of the packaging was that it was very pretty.  Not completely necessary, of course, but very much appreciated!  The vibrations are strong and you even have your choice of a few different settings.  I would recommend this vibrator and like it very much!  Isn't it pretty?!?

Of course, there are many other vibrators to choose from on their site! I'm sure you will find one, or more, that you really want!  Have fun!

Bye,
The New Me

Downsizing

Thanks for the article from Isaiah Gaines

Well, this move has been nothing short of exhausting. We downsized from a townhouse in Manhattan to a one bedroom in the Upper East Side and are thrilled to have less to clean and more trees to see. In the midst of packing, moving, unpacking and organizing, it slipped our minds that we’d need to get the heat turned on. The first few days of moving were rather warm, not to mention that we sweat through our t-shirts lifting boxes up the brownstone stairs. So, when we settled in on Saturday night to watch a DVD (no cable yet) and drink wine, we found ourselves chilly and unable to warm our feet. I, of course, went to NEWYORKenergyRATES.com right away, but they couldn’t come out to hook things up until Thursday! So, here we are, bundled under blankets and drinking hot tea after dinner every night to stay warm. Next time we move (which will hopefully be, um, never) I’ll pay more attention to necessary utilities than making sure my Kate Spade china makes it safely into the dining room. Who are we kidding? You know me better than that.

Rabbits Anyone? Spicy Saturday!

I have really been enjoying the friendship I'm forging with EdenFantasys! Their website is great.  They offer lots of outstanding sales all the time. They have a wide variety of items.  And everything I've ever gotten from them has been of the highest quality!



Today I want to talk about vibrators. They are a standard for any woman interested in purchasing a sex toy.  They're great because you can use them alone but you can also have your husband or significant other use them on you as well.  It's always interesting to me how differently he does it than from how I do it!

I noticed on EdenFantasys that they have all their rabbit vibrators on sale for 25% off!!  What a great deal! Plus, the Couture and L'amour ones are even 30% off.  Head on over and check them out.  If you like vibrators, or have never even tried one, the rabbit style are especially great because of the dual stimulation!

Bye,
The New Me

Babeland's Bnaughty Review

One of the great things about writing a blog about marriage is that I have the opportunity to review products from various online adult toy shops. What fun, right?!?

Today I'm going to write about an item I received from Babeland.  One thing I like about their store in particular is that they are a very women-friendly place to buy sex toys and vibrators.  Another thing I like is that everything is kept very confidential.  I'll admit, as you may remember from my other posts, that shopping/buying an adult toy can be a little embarrassing for me.  But with Babeland I don't have to worry about that.  All shopping is completed online and the package comes delivered in a plain brown box with a nondescript return address. Perfect!

The item I received yesterday was the Bnaughty.  What a great bullet vibrator!  There are four speeds, ranging from slightly intense to over the top.  I like that you can build up gradually if you want or just go full force!  Included in the box is a beautiful black velour bag for storage.  Here is a picture...

I'll be honest, a bullet vibrator is my very favorite adult toy, especially for times when I'm playing alone.  I've had my old one for quite a few years and it was getting very unreliable.  Of course, after having it for so long I've grown accustomed to it and wasn't sure if I'd be satisfied with a replacement.  Well, I have to tell you, not only am I satisfied but I'm over the top thrilled!  The Bnaughty is so much better!  For one thing, it is prettier. The bullet itself is smoother.  And, most importantly, the vibrations are stronger!!  That is always the most important for me and the Bnaughty does not disappoint.





I highly recommend you check out Babeland for your adult toy purchases.  I'm sure you'll find something you want to try.....if not a few things!  Have fun shopping!

Bye,
The New Me

Spicy Saturday Intro

I had a great response to my "Something Spicy" post a week ago.  As a result of that, I've decided to make this a weekly series.  Or at least we'll start out weekly and see how it goes from there!  It's interesting to me how many married women enjoy these types of things but don't really want to talk about it.  I'm here to help change that!

In my search for knowledge, I discovered another website that looks awesome.  Good Vibrations Sex Ed Series: How to Choose a Vibrator.  I learned a lot and I think you will too!  So, keep an eye on out for the new "Spicy Saturday" series.  I'm planning on posting each Friday evening.  Enjoy!

Bye,
The New Me

Something Spicy

Well, as you can tell from reading my blog, sex & affection are a very important part of my marriage.  I’m very proud to say that after 20 years of marriage we both still crave each other!  I love that!  I love that we make our time & pleasure a priority.  Not all marriages do these days and divorce is sometimes the unpleasant result.

Of course, after 20 years our love life could have the tendency to get boring.  That isn’t a problem for us though.  I think one reason is because we are willing to experiment some.  We strive to keep our love life fresh and exciting all the time.  There are times when we’ll use lingerie, candles, oils, maybe even a toy to spice things up a little.

The problem has been buying these things.  As silly as it sounds after 20 years of marriage, I’m embarrassed to go into an adult store to purchase things like this.  But today I came across a great website called EdenFantasys. They sell a wide variety of items that I think will be fun to try out.  Of course there are some items that might be out of our comfort zone but there are tons of others that we would enjoy.  Everything seems to be very reasonably priced and will be shipped in discreet packaging.  Sounds perfect!!

Bye,

The New Me

Thinking about weddings

I hate to admit this but sometimes I find myself thinking about weddings.  Silly, I know, for someone who has been married for over 20 years!  I suppose part of it is because of my daughter leaving for college....she's "marrying age" now, lol.  I suppose part of it is also because I've been watching lots of wedding shows like Say Yes to the Dress and Four Weddings.  Those shows are so fun to watch!

It's amazing to me how many details there are to think about when planning a wedding.  Of course, there are so many more options available now than when I was planning my wedding back in 1990.  Think about the wedding invitations, for example.  It can be challenging to find affordable wedding invitations but it is worth the effort. I found one site online, just for fun, that offered a wide variety to choose from.  There were many choices including serious or fun wedding invitations, depending on the mood you wanted to create.

I guess I'm probably getting ahead of myself in thinking about weddings.  Especially since my daughter has never even been on a date, lol!  But it is really fun to day dream about them sometimes.

Shopping Online

How many of you shop online? I do and I think it actually wonderful! The only thing I don't like about it is trying to find the best price. I hate searching through tons of websites only to realize that the first one I visited had the best price.  Well, things have just gotten a lot easier thanks to a website I just discovered.  "Become" is a fully integrated internet wide product search and comparison shopping site.  I love it!

With the NFL season starting this week, and knowing how much I love the Steelers, I decided to look for something related to them.  I discovered these awesome Steelers necklaces.  I love them!  There are also some really great baseball sport necklaces if you like that sport better.  Of course, if you are more interested in military items there are some really nice US Navy rings too.

Those are just a few examples of how to use the Become website.  I think it's really great and will probably be using it in the future whenever I'm doing my online shopping!

Tennis Time

Guest post from: Constance Rodgers

What is it about tennis that I like so much? I don’t really like to play the game since my hand eye coordination is about as bad as an infant’s but I really, really like to watch it on TV. For example, this year when Wimbledon was going on I was glued to myhttp://www.DIREC.tv channels watching every back and forth of the racket. The girls were grunting louder than I’ve ever heard them which made it all the more exciting! I think it’s because tennis is such an individual game and there’s not a lot of room for error but it could be because I’m not good at it myself and wish I would learn something from watching. Whatever it is I should probably take some lessons so I know as much about being on the court as I do about the rules and what a good stroke should look like…I’m totally a fairweather tennis fan! Serena Williams is my favorite but I suppose she’s probably everyone’s which isn’t all that special…